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Adam E.'s avatar

Beautiful. I’m still learning about mental health at 35, so you’re doing quite well. God speed.

Ben Sixsmith's avatar

Thanks Adam! I'm still learning too!

Rob's avatar

Great stuff Ben, makes me think seriously about tackling my main addiction - which is too shameful to say out loud, but needs dealt with! Hope I can!

Ben Sixsmith's avatar

Thanks Rob! I wish you determination and success!

Schwarzgeist's avatar

Good stuff, Ben. I used to have a SEVERE drinking problem (last time I drank I ended up on a ventilator) so I can definitely relate to the recovery part.

Ben Sixsmith's avatar

Thanks! Hope you're doing better!

Val Coyne's avatar

Just wanted to say bravo and then ask for sharing your invaluable insights with such an open heart.

Val Coyne's avatar

Then ask should be thanks……! Blooming eyesight!

BigOinSeattle's avatar

Love these essays. I don’t know about anorexia - it doesn’t get much attention in men - but I do know about alcoholism. For me it was never about the friends, the taste, the social interaction or the conviviality. It was always about getting drunk! As the alcoholic drinks more he becomes more isolated. So I’m glad to see that other men are able to use alcohol to better their lives and recover from something perhaps worse.